“Sexual compulsion” is an attempt to “undo” the traumatic experiences of the past. You were powerless to effect change as a child because you didn’t have the resources to take care of yourself. As an adult, through a repetition compulsion, you can achieve a sense of mastery over the sense of helplessness you experienced as a child. But this is faulty thinking.
Is sex dirty? We know now that the answer is yes and no, depending on the circumstances. Sex itself is clean and sacred. We can fully enjoy it and keep it holy only in marriage between one man and one woman. Any sex outside of such marriage becomes dirty and should therefore be avoided.
What most men don’t realize is that female orgasm is a holistic expeience involving a woman’s mind, body and emotions. It works best when she feels loved, supported and respected – most of all, completely relaxed. For men, orgasm and ejaculation last only a few seconds. A single climax is usually enough to satisfy them for a time. Conversely, women are able to enjoy multiple orgasms. Quite often, after having one or two, they tend to want more – again and again, as each one can feel more gratifying. When properly stimulated, it can be a wonderful feeling of rolling waves perpetuating in pure ecstasy, as the intensity continues to build with each blissful climax. A woman can generate unlimited orgasms for as long as she can stand it. It has been recorded that a woman experienced 134 orgasms in one hour!
As this is a bachelorette party, it is best to have trivia games based on the bride and groom them selves. The only thing is that game takes some exploration. Obviously, these are questions linked to the two people, but there could be variations. For instance, instead of asking questions about that bride, questions can also be focused on the groom. One in the friends can plan that game by interviewing the groom before the event. Information taken during the interview could be used to ask questions to the bride this also can test her knowledge on her husband-to-be. The questions can range between normal topics like precisely what his favorite perfume is actually, to more racy questions like what the color of his underwear is usually today. There should be consequences for any bride-to-be if she does not answer the questions correctly.
Often, it is usually the husbands that protest about their wives’ absence of eagerness in sex. Often, it is also the husbands that lead to cheating mainly because of this condition. This is the kind of problem that members of online dating sites like Sacred Love complain of. Of course, the problem goes both ways. There are also husbands or boyfriends who suffer a loss of passion in sexual intimacy. This can be very bothersome for their wives or female spouses. Additionally, most of the time, it is the female partners who ultimately lack appeal in sexual intercourse. Loss of libido is very prevalent in wives, and yet this is not a situation many adult males suffer.